But so is enjoying a little one-on-one time with you and your body. Masturbation is a safe and natural way to feel good, discover what gets you hot, and release built-up sexual tension. Keep reading to learn more about masturbating with a vagina, how you can get started, and what you can do to really turn up the heat. This will vary from person to person. Orgasm type Type of masturbation clitoral Most people use their fingers to play with their clitoris, but vibrators and other toys can also bring pleasure during solo play.
Right before you orgasm, you may feel an intense need to pee — only the contractions are around your anal sphincter. You can use both hands to play with your vagina and your clitoris, or a combo of sex toy and fingers. These areas, known as erogenous zones, can cause pleasurable sensations throughout your body when played with.
Think about turning down the lights, lighting some candles, and listening to relaxing music to get the mood going. But sometimes, that may not be enough or it may not happen at all! So keep a tube of lube on hand to increase your pleasure. Let your mind wander. It may go without saying, but you can turn yourself on by simply thinking about that hottie you met last week.
Let your mind fantasize about people or situations that send tingles down your spine. Playing with your erogenous zones — think your nipples, ears, or thighs — can shoot sparks of pleasure throughout your body. Give your usual sex toys a break. Some people, for example, like to stimulate themselves by using a showerhead on their clitoris or rubbing their vulva against a pillow.
Consider erotica or pornography. If you want to turn up the heat, read a dirty book or watch a sexy video. Your clitoris is packed with thousands of nerve endings, making it the most sensitive part of your genitals. Clitoral orgasm Massage the fleshy area on the top of your pubic bone, then run your fingers along the outer and inner lips of your vulva. Start rubbing or stroking your clitoris through the hood. Find a rhythm that makes you feel good.
Intensify the feeling by applying heavy pressure until you orgasm. Using a vibrator is a great way to stimulate your clitoris without having to overwork your fingers. Just run your sex toy up and down the area until you get off. If you want to try for a vaginal O Despite common myths, most people with a vagina have a hard time climaxing with vaginal stimulation.
But if you want to see stars, experiment with stimulating your G-spot — a pleasure point on your vaginal wall — with consistent, heavy pressure doing so may also lead to ejaculation!
Vaginal orgasm First massage your vaginal opening, then slowly insert your fingers or sex toy into your vagina. Start to move your fingers or toy in a circular, in-and-out, stroking, or combination of motions. Increase the speed and pressure as the good vibrations begin to build. If you want to experiment with anal Who says anal orgasms are only for people with penises? You can still get off through anal play by indirectly stimulating the G-spot through the wall shared between the rectum and vagina.
Anal orgasm Start massaging the outside and inside of your anal opening, then slowly and gently insert your finger or sex toy into your anus.
Switch between a circular and in-and-out motion as you penetrate your anus. Vibrators, plugs, anal beads, and massagers can intensify your orgasm tenfold. Combo solo play intensifies feelings of pleasure by stimulating all the sensitive parts of your genitals. Combo orgasm You can use both hands or a combo of fingers and sex toys for clitoral and vaginal stimulation during a solo session.
Use parallel or opposite rhythms when playing with your clitoris and vagina at the same time. Even consider switching up speeds between the two think fast fingers, slow penetration. When it comes to stimulating your erogenous zones, play around with various touches think rubbing, tugging, or pinching and sex toys think feathers or finger vibrators to know what makes you feel good. You can use different positions to kick your solo session up a notch on the pleasure scale.
Here are just a few to try out: For clitoral, try laying on your back Sure, laying on your back may seem old fashioned, but when it comes to stimulating your clitoris, no position is better.
While on your back, with a pillow propped under your head, spread your legs and bend them at the knees. Start to rub your clitoris. You can go slow or fast, hard or soft — whatever feels good to you. Squatting makes it easier for you to locate your G-spot, which is about two to three inches inside your vaginal canal. Crouch down with your heels close to or touching the back of your thighs. Then, start to slide your fingers or toy into your vagina, moving deeper as you go.
Mix it up with a range of motions, from stroking and circular, to in-and-out. For anal, try face-down doggy style When it comes to anal play, face-down doggy style opens you up for so much pleasure. The position gives you the room you need to insert your fingers or a toy in your behind with one hand, while rubbing yourself with the other.
Get on all fours, then put your face down on your bed or floor so your backside is higher in the air. Wrap one arm around your back to reach your anus, while placing your other arm underneath your body, so you can touch your clitoris. For the combo and erogenous zones, try the pretend lover Think of the pretend lover as the cowgirl for one. Put your favorite dildo or vibrator on your bed, and lower yourself down until you find a sensation you like — either penetration, clitoral, or both.
You may need to use your hands to steady your toy. Ride your toy as fast or as slow as you want. At the same time, rub your clitoris or play with your nipples at the end of this solo session. Want to go wild? Try the reflection The reflection is a great way to really discover your body and what turns you on. Sit yourself in front of a full-length mirror with a big tube of lube. Pour the lube all over your body — your breasts, belly, inner thighs, and vulva — and start sliding your hands over these erogenous zones.
Pinch, squeeze, pull, tug, rub — do whatever feels good, and pay attention to what really gets you hot and bothered. Instead of jumping right into touching yourself, why not set off slowly and get your other senses tingling? Kinky literature encourages you to fantasize and discover sexual pleasures in a safe, fun way.
Watching porn can increase your libido, relieve stress, and allow you to explore your sexual kinks in a safe way. If you prefer to listen Listening to sexy sounds can be just as — if not more — arousing as reading erotica or watching porn. Audio lets your imagination run wild as you lose yourself in the details of the story. The bottom line Masturbation is a fun, sexy, and safe way to explore your desires and learn what turns you on.
Plus, there are so many health benefits to self-pleasure — Reduced stress! Do whatever makes you feel good — and enjoy every minute of it!