This article contains explicit descriptions and discussion of sexual violence. The desire to see videogame characters naked existed long before whispers of Tomb Raider nude codes. These days, by way of game-altering player-made mods, turning that desire into reality has never been easier. Despite Skyrim being rated 'Mature' by the Entertainment Software Ratings Board, the base game is actually very light on sexual content—just a few offhand references and some suggestive clothing.
However, Skyrim also has one of the most flexible modding frameworks of any game, enabling amateur artists and programmers to change the original content in ways that the developer never intended. Using mods, you can now add elements of survival games, rework the combat, or turn all the dragons into Macho Man Randy Savage. And with those same tools, modders have also been able to turn Skyrim into a sexual playground encompassing almost any kink imaginable. At first I imagined my headfirst dive into the world of Skyrim sex mods would be an evening spent bumping uglies with werewolves or inciting orgies in Whiterun—and it largely was.
This is a community that hasn't left many stones unturned. Sex in Skyrim Ashal isn't exactly the type of person I'd expect to be running the largest adult modding community on the internet.
He's quiet and aloof—not like the digital Hugh Hefner I had in mind when I first set out to meet him. But if there's one person you could attribute to the massive community of adult-themed mods, it's Ashal. More than just owner of the massive sex mod community, LoversLab, his SexLabs mod is the paint and canvas that allows thousands of modders to bring their desires to life inside of Skyrim.
To date it's been downloaded over 2. While the mod does nothing by itself, it provides a foundation of thousands of animations and basic game functions that others can expand upon. A sexual arousal system, for example, essentially quantifies how horny a character might become from witnessing various sexual acts. When we first talk, it's hours after midnight—the only time Ashal can talk freely without risking his housemates overhearing our discussion. LoversLab and its roughly 1. It's such a massive community that even on a Monday morning there are over 1, active users.
The mod Schlongs of Skyrim, to take one example, provides an exhaustive suite of options for tailoring every aspect of a character's penis to make it look just right. And then there are mods like Devious Devices, an incredibly in-depth series of BDSM mods that give players every bondage or domination tool they could dream of.
Devious Devices doesn't just stock your inventory full of whips and chains, but also includes quests to provide some erotic inspiration for roleplaying. I want them embedded in a meaningful story or setting. She's a year-old software engineer who manages Devious Devices after inheriting it from another member. A lot of [LoversLab] mods actually provide just that, which to me is their main benefit over [porn]. My specific focus—bondage—isn't even necessarily pornographic in nature.
Bondage play can involve or result in sex, but doesn't have to. Aside from sex, roleplaying is probably the most common theme on LoversLab. The appeal isn't always the sex itself, but the way mods like Devious Devices weave sensuality and play into the stories players are telling through their characters. Like Ashal, Kimy says her status as one of the most popular sex modders is a closely kept secret.
That one is usually only touched, if at all, very superficially so. I sometimes imagine what my friends would say if I told them that I was creating bondage mods. If they were honest, I would probably hear 'cool, I am into cuffs and ropes, too!
The anonymity of it lets people like Kimy shed their fears of judgment and express themselves both online and in Skyrim. Ashal tells me that "no kink-shaming" is one of the community's biggest rules. For him and Kimy, LoversLab is a welcoming place for people of all sexual inclinations—even ones they don't agree with. Nothing to the imagination That includes popular LoversLab mods like More Nasty Creatures, which allows you to engage in all manner of sexual encounters with the local wildlife of Skyrim.
With the push of a few buttons, you can watch a giant use your Dragonborn like a Fleshlight. Though they make my skin crawl, I'm sure someone out there has risked a hagraven's diseases just to say they've fucked one. And, of course, you can consume more of dragons than just their souls.
It feels a little ironic then that he must carry the burden of his community's sexual fetishes by programming the functionality into SexLabs. I was like, fine, I'll spend the next month watching bears give oral sex to my character so I can finish this feature. I only added it because so many people were asking for it. With just under a million downloads, the fourth-most downloaded mod on LoversLab is SexLab Defeat it uses the SexLab name, but Ashal isn't affiliated with it.
Because nothing shatters the illusion of roleplaying quite like dying, SexLab Defeat introduces a host of scenarios that occur in lieu of death. In concept, I'd love to see more roleplaying games make death more interesting than a timeout or loss of progress, but SexLab Defeat's solutions center around rape.
Built on Ashal's framework, the mod uses many of the same animations and features, but presented outside of the context of consensual sex. It's not the only mod like this. Others simulate sexual assault to a troubling degree, including victims exhibiting emotional trauma by crying after their assault is over. Necrophilia, bestiality, and rape mods are all common and popular on the site.
In fact, the only thing that is strictly off limits is anything involving children. I ask Ashal about LoversLab's loose policies, especially with regards to rape. I wouldn't agree with that—there's a line between fantasy and reality. I asked her if there's any correlation between fantasizing about rape and a propensity to carry out a sexual assault in real life. It's a way for our mind to work out things or heal certain parts of ourselves, it's a way to better understand a situation and work through things that we're feeling.
Research into the psychology of rape fantasies suggests similar conclusions. A meta-analysis published by Joseph Critelli and Jenny Bivona, researchers at the University of North Texas, combined 20 studies to explore why between 31 and 57 percent of women "have fantasies in which they are forced into sex against their will.
In fact, the term 'rape fantasy' is even misleading because the nuance of such fantasies can be a lot more complex. David Ley, a clinical psychologist and sex therapist, writes to me in email. Ultimately, the 'why' is less important. There are many, many different reasons for these fantasies.
The more important thing is for us to accept and acknowledge them as a part of human sexuality. David Ley Understanding a forced-sex fantasy from the perspective of the victim has been the subject of many studies, but there's much less research exploring the fantasy from the other perspective. If fantasizing about being forced into sex doesn't correlate to a desire to experience rape in real life, can the same be said for fantasizing about raping someone?
But, the important thing is that it is the predisposing characteristics, such as antisocial personality, misogyny, substance use, mental illness, which really drive the risk. Violent media serves a very small part. Ley acknowledges that this is still a contentious area of science. With so many other factors to consider, like the majority of rapes going unreported and varying cultural attitudes toward sexual violence, the research is far from conclusive.
That's why the the laws around pornographic material involving simulated rape are also different according to country. In England, for example, the.