But what might surprise you is how unfulfilling a sex life without oral activities could really be. Overall, for your mental, physical and sexual health, making sure to set aside foreplay time to pleasure each other orally will maintain your connection and prosperity, individually and as a couple. No matter your limitations, most couples can find a way to make oral sex a leading component of their sexual routine and repertoire.
For women, oral sex before intercourse allows the vaginal muscles to become looser and can increase natural lubrication. This is great for women experiencing vaginal tightness to prevent discomfort or injury during intercourse. Oral sex could also help with delayed ejaculation by retraining the brain to enjoy sexual stimulation from a variety of methods. If a man is able to obtain an erection after ejaculation, it may also help extend the intercourse as well. Woman Lying Down What it is: How to do it: Insert penis in mouth and enjoy his reaction.
Simply hold and insert the dildo gently or rough, depending on their preference! Woman Standing, Partner Kneeling What it is: Singer says this is a more athletic approach to cunnilingus, but one that can be very sexy. And if the receiver knows that she gets weak in the knees when she orgasms, she might want to have a chair or soft surface to tumble onto when she goes over the edge, orgasmically speaking. Hunter Riley , a sex educator says to really let loose in this position and enjoy all of benefits of this erotic oral sex position.
Man Standing, Partner Kneeling What it is: If porn is any indication, the most classic, beloved position for most men is watching a girl give him a blowjob while on her knees in front of him.
And, if both partners have consented to it, he can use his hand on the back of her head and thrust into her mouth. Just as it sounds: She also notes that for some couples, ejaculating on her chest, aka a "pearl necklace," is also a nice kinky variation on this position.
Just be sure that she has something comfortable to kneel on to avoid the mistake of rug burn, she concludes. This also makes it easy to do our own adjusting without having to ask our partner to move a little to the left; we can simply make the shift ourselves. In a position that feels comfortable for both, simply lie flat on your back. Then, your lady will kneel over your face, as you pleasure her.
On the other side of the coin, you can make your way from missionary, up to her mouth to get a little dip before returning to intercourse. This one is pretty much how it sounds: The man rests his knees on the edge of the bed, and then brings his genitals so that they are hovering right near her face and mouth, Riley instructs.
The 69 What it is: Classic, tried and true, the dual-pleasure of a 69 can make it surprisingly intimate — and incredibly sexy. The couple engage in oral sex at the same time. On the other hand, it does allow the man to use his hands to provide extra stimulation for her. There are a few variations of 69 including the couple switching positions where she is on bottom and he is on top.
This allows the woman a break from supporting her body and frees up her hands so she can provide extra stimulation while giving. But to get around it? One way to spice up this move is with some edible lubricant, that will make moving together easier.
Or body oil, if you want to shy away from anything on your genitals and mouth. Sideways 69 What it is: This position can relieve stress from supporting body weight, especially if both have current medical conditions around knee or back problems.
Just be careful with your legs! Just like the regular 69, except that you both lay on your side. Think of making a ying and a yang. Enjoy the comfort, Riley says. This is a great position to add in sex toys such as vibrators or dildos used on her during cunnilingus , Singer recommends.
Upside-Down 69 What it is: The man is standing and holding the woman upside down. Typically, she would get into a handstand position and he would then pick her up and support her. The man, especially, needs a very strong and stable core including abs, back, and glute muscles. The woman would also need a strong core to protect her muscles. I would also suggest this position for those without any current or prior injury. Singer gives the lowdown: Hunter says not to take it so seriously, but sure, give it a try if you can: For this one, consider a sex pillow, to make the fall from your comical headstand a bit less dramatic.
Sideways Oral What it is: This might be a more comfortable position for her to experiment with deep thraoting and controlling her gag reflex. On a bed or the floor, if you prefer , lay horizontal. Then, your girlfriend, with her head near your shaft, lays vertical on her stomach.
She gets to town. Elevated Cunnilingus What it is: It also allows her to sit down, which can be more comfortable , depending on where she is and how much access you have to her most sensitive area. The name is self-explanatory, but for a step-by-step guide: Singer says to be a little risky with this one: If you wanted to get extra playful, you could use a clitoris stimulator along with your tongue for super-intense action.
Doggy Style Oral What it is: Thought your favorite sex position was just for intercourse? In addition to the playful way above, Geter says you can always modify the position to be more comfortable and give you access to other areas. Another suggestion is she get on hand and knees at the edge of the bed and he is kneeling on the floor. This might work better for a taller woman with longer legs.