When it comes to getting in the mood, foreplay is by far the most important aspect of sex but don't worry there's always something for you and your partner to enjoy. We butted heads with top sexperts and rounded up the 10 best foreplay tips guaranteed to make you and your partner go wild.
Here's what you need to know Sex should be fun, playful and anything but boring so why not invest some time and effort into your foreplay techniques? Trust us, it CAN go a long way!
Author of Sex Academy , Dr Pam Spurr says, "For no holds barred pleasure the best foreplay really teases your partner increasing their desire meaning they're far more likely to climax. Remember, it's all about the anticipation. So to help you make sex exciting again we got together with the best sex and relationships experts out there to share their advice on mind blowing foreplay. Ladies, here's how to fire him up Eastern swirl and poke Dr Pam suggests a little trick that your man can use to make you go wild.
Then he alternates this sensation with a gentle poking action from the tip of his tongue. He can also move down your body to use on you for oral-sex pleasure. Go for the grind Founder of Cliterati. Sexpert and owner of online sex retailer Jo Divine , Samantha Evans says, "Most men love boobs but don't give them much attention during foreplay, rushing to your more obvious body parts.
Get your man to devote more time, lavishly massaging oil into your gorgeous breasts and concentrating on your nipples with both his fingers and mouth". You'll both enjoy it! Moves like a movie star Being a bit of a tease is a good thing when it comes to foreplay so when you're getting down to it, why not try and keep up the anticipation for an entire film?
Position your thumb on the frenulum the stringy bit that runs from the head to the shaft as it tends to be the most sensitive. For his ears only When it comes to stimulating your guy, sometimes you too can forget that it's not just about the obvious areas. Pam suggests you move your attentions elsewhere Create new sensations for him by stroking this area with your fingertips as you kiss. Better yet if you have long nails gently scratch and tickle behind his ears.
Now trace a line with your tongue around his ear lobe, and if you feel like it, start whispering the beginning of a hot fantasy into his ear. Experiment with new sensations The trick to fiery foreplay is playing with hot and cold sensations.
Sex and Relationships Expert and columnist for GQ, Christina Wellor says, "An icy tongue on the tip of his penis or a hot mouth enveloping it, will make a blow job even more mind blowing than usual. Relish licking cream or honey from his penis, just like a lollipop! Dollop some jam or chocolate spread on his nipples and listen to him squeal with pleasure as you slowly suck it off.
Control it Couples often find comfort in familiar things but it's so important to try mixing it up from time to time. Try a new sex toy, or better yet, try a sex toy with a remote control.
Samantha says, "There are several remote control sex toys that you can wear to get your juices flowing, so why not try a We-Vibe Plus 4 and let your man take control of the remote. Slip it in before going to dinner or even to the cinema and let your man take control of your sexual pleasure".
The element of surprise will catch them you off guard and heighten your levels of sensory experience and excitement. Oral Sex for him Sex and Relationship expert Rachael McCoy spills her sexiest secret for mind blowing oral sex for your man. Get on your knees looking provocatively into your partners eyes, part his legs and slowly lick his inner thighs in long, soft stroking motions. Use your hands to run over his chest, abdomen and thighs using firm pressure.
The contrast of firm and light pressure will have him just about ready to explode waiting for you to get your mouth around him. Mutual Masturbation It might not be one for everyone, but Rachael says mutual masturbation can be a huge turn-on.
Watch your own hands as they glide over your body and then look up every so often to give him a cheeky smile. Make sure to show him what you're doing when you're enjoying yourself before bringing yourself to full on climax. You doing this shows confidence which is incredibly sexy for him. To help get you in the mood quicker massage yourself with Durex Pure Bliss , an erotic massager with velvet soft edges that will take you from warm and sexy to HOT and ready.
Arousing the senses Being blindfolded can be a super-kinky way to take your foreplay to the next level. Rachael says,"Take turns to blindfold each-other and caress and tease one body part at a time with as many different textures as possible. Try using ice, feathers, silk, a paddle or whip and experiment with different techniques and sensations. Samantha says, "These can be heated in warm water to induce a warming sensation or cooled in fridge to create a breathtaking feeling especially around the clitoris and when used on nipples - just like ice cubes!
Create your own sex show Samantha says, "Men are highly visual and become aroused by just watching, so put on your very own sex show and let him see what turns you on. Tell him he can only look, not touch and use your favourite sex toy. If you're comfortable, add some bondage to your tease. Rachael says, "Sit your man on a chair in the middle of a room and tie his hands behind his back.
Get some sexy heels on and an eye catching outfit and provocatively walk around the chair gliding your hands over his body as you go. Dominantly move his head to one side as you lick and gently bite his neck and earlobes.
Then wrap your arms around his shoulders and gyrate over his bulge without letting him enter you, with your breasts pushed against his chest until he begs to be untied. Try our favourite toys and positions for mind-blowing sex You might also like: