Girls, I am sorry but you are all crazy. Gay guy here, engaged, used to be bi. And the more crazy they are, the better they are in the sack.
I had fun, but god dammit the drama. What is slightly awkward in small towns in public becomes great at home. Guys are so easy to get along with. No drama, no bullshit. Say what you are feeling in plain English. Have a calm and rational discussion about it.
Try the blue pair instead. I seem to connect a lot more with other guys and I feel like guys tend to be more rational and mature. Bi guy here, currently in a relationship with another guy. Not that much is different, I seem to connect a lot more with other guys and I feel like guys tend to be more rational and mature without sounding sexist. I can get over a guy fairly easily; women are so, so much harder to get over.
This has been mentioned before, but women can be infinitely meaner about bisexuality. With that said, I feel like I have a deeper emotional connection with women. But I can get over a guy fairly easily; women are so, so much harder to get over.
In terms of sex, I love sex with women. The feeling of fucking a beautiful vagina, hair, no hair, I love it all. Chubby guys really turn me on, sucking on a nice hard cock and letting them cum all over me is equally appealing. I can be emotionally invested in either sex, and it feels much the same. Bi men have it the worst.
Some people have said women are more intimate and emotional while men tend to focus more on the sexual aspects of a relationship, which is not at all my experience. In private men are more sensitive than you would think- often more so than me. Women will date you hoping they can change you, and men will date you hoping you will never change.
I have identified as polysexual for a while now, and I am amazed at how many things I used to think were just me actually applied to a lot of people who like men and women. But part of that comes from some people are just easier to talk to in order to get certain outcomes. At the risk of generalizing, if I want to vent in a way where I will be validated and understood, I go to women, and if I want a partner to offer solution suggestions repeatedly, I go to men. And then even if you are in a heterosexual relationship but still openly identifying as something other than straight, people call it a lie for attention.
No matter who I am with, I am fake. I also cross dress in my spare time, and I have a ton of issues trying to establish with anyone whether I want them or want to look like them. So anyone who said any of those things, thank you for making me feel a little less alone. Both, as far as I can tell, are rooted in egocentric tendencies.
Also, women will date you hoping they can change you, and men will date you hoping you will never change. Both of these are false assumptions that lead to heartbreak. In my dude relationships, the guy was much less perceptive and caring. At the same time, we could have fun and have great sex on an incredible level. My relationships with chicks are caring and sweet, but their emotional stage is somewhat alien to me, as a guy, and vice versa. For me, it ends up being a practically perfect 1: Dude here, had several Tinder dates, yes actual dates.
Also the whole dating game is longer with girls I find. Also worth my girlfriend we talk about the future a lot, which I never would have brought up with my ex boyfriend.
Dominant, decisive, the provider. The relationships are completely different. I still exclusively watch lesbian porn and check out the beautiful ladies at the bars. But I would never act on it because I found the person who gives me the best of both types of relationships.