Some college not currently in college Occupation: Self-employed How religious are you? A little Sexual orientation: Heterosexual How many sexual partners have you had in your life including oral sex?
What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Kate had a flair about her, the way she carried herself as a confident and I would even describe her as a desirably cocky person, this was the sexiest part about her.
I have to say I had a crush on her but this was before I ever imagined realistically being involved with an older woman. What led to it? When I was still in college, she would invite me over to hang out with her and her daughter and just be around and sleep over and be apart of the family no father around so I kind of took over as the man of the house. The house was full of people so I would spend nights in her room, sleeping on the couch but one night I was feeling bad about a personal matter.
As far as what she told me later on, it was one time we went to travel a couple months prior to the hookup where I kissed her on the cheek in a playful manner when she started developing feelings for me. We did not plan to have sex and in terms of actual sex, I think the instigating leaned more to her side. What sexual behaviors took place e. How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you?
Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She asked me into her bed and we talked for a little, then in a vulnerable moment she kissed my face all over leading to my mouth and we just made out passionately.
Believe me when I say I was completely shocked this had occured. We did it in every position constantly changing. She was loving every second of it and so was I. Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner s? What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We were just attracted to each other but we never ever had a really good opportunity to get it on until now.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? How did you feel about it? How do you feel about them now?
I was already so ingrained to the family that having crazy sex with Kate was just unimaginable from my standpoint. It was somewhat awkward but we talked a little and she was telling me how we would get used to what just happened and how we need time to get back to normal. We pretty much kept up our secret love affair for about half a year and fucked whenever we had the chance.
Eventually I had to go back to reality and work and school but it was very fun, while it all lasted. To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react?
I told a good friend that something like that happened with a woman that age but I never got into details and who and when and what. Do you regret this hookup? What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Worst thing was we could not publically show our affection because everybody that knew us saw us as informal son and mother. To this day, I wish my sex partners would do this move.
Maybe one day we will reuinte again. Not at all negative Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? I still communicate with her kids though and we both thought they suspected us of our fling. You have a hookup story to share?