This is what previous particpants have to say about the workshop: Before the workshop this was an extremely rare occurrence to feel that happening. And this is an amazing start to getting our sex life back. The best thing for me has been the 4 online modules and the thought that we were many women sitting there at the same time, in our own living rooms, listening to you tell us about sex drive and relationships. I really want to recommend this workshop to others who are ready to work with their sex drive.
He has also learnt that it is not my responsibility to satisfy him percent all the time. I must admit, I was impressed. My husband agreed to be a part of the exercises couples can do and these are really good and very comfortable. No pressure to have sex, no bad conscience, no guilt and no conflicts. This workshop has saved our relationship. And just the fact that he has this new insight makes me want HIM more. The knowledge presented in these modules should be compulsory in high school.
Thank you so much! A lot of sexologists could learn from that! In my case, I had to change some things around in my everyday life in order to get back my surplus energy and with this renewed energy my sex drive has returned.
It has completely astonished me how much I actually enjoy being physically close to my husband again. The workshop has provided me with the tools I need to speak to my husband about my problems and about how I feel about my low sex drive and about why it is so low.
My husband is a part of this process as well. For the first time in many years!!!!! Imagine that 4 modules can make such a difference. Your course has changed my entire life, my way of looking at myself as a human being, a woman and a sexual creature. And my husband is happy. I no longer run away, I now accept his embrace. My whole experience with your course and what spurred it on started one night at 2: I was sitting on my couch feeling miserable!
I could recognize myself in ALL of the examples on reduced sex drive given in the modules and I felt like the worst wife in the whole world. But then as soon as he got home I just got annoyed with him and it was the lion-gazelle story again and again and again. So this particular night at 2: I was completely honest and I managed to put my thoughts and my guilt into words. I never sent the letter nor did I ever show it to my husband.
But I did decide to have a long talk to him and together we decided to listen to your online modules. I especially felt like I could identify myself with Louise I think her name was Louise from your podcasts.
She sounded like she was a strong believer of what she thought was the norm. As one of her girlfriends even said to her: Now I see myself much more like Louise sees herself in the latter part of the interview: And I owe you such a massive thank you. Pleasant because it has changed how I see myself but also because it has been really easy, being online. When I signed up for the workshop I received an exercise which I had to start right away. The first few days it was difficult but it quickly became easier and easier to do and I discovered that I actually do feel my sex drive several times a week!
In the beginning I did think that it seemed a bit silly and a bit of a jar that I had to do that. However, within a few days it all made perfect sense. Again, such an eye-opener. I hated it because I was always thinking: We both really enjoyed going through the modules. Also, my husband now understands me A LOT more after listening to the modules, and we both benefit from this. The exercises are really good and we do really benefit greatly from working with these, and we now know each other better than before the workshop.
I started feeling really bad because of this! But then I saw that Maj Wismann had done this online workshop and I was so happy!
At the moment our main focus is on my pregnancy. You just have to know! Open, honest and non-judgmental — it was amazing! And I want to thank you for that, Maj. There were several factors which affected my sex life. Both things I was able to change right away but also things which will take me longer. I wish I could take this course and give it to all my girlfriends and all the other mums in our Mothers Group.
This hurt me a lot. Years passed like this with both of us feeling frustrated about our non-existing sex life and my sex drive which ultimately disappeared completely. It would often end up in fights and tears. Nice and easy I started doing whatever I could. Things which all made my sex drive bigger. It turned into some long and difficult talks.
Talks where we, at long last, put our thoughts into words and spoke about the frustrations and the longings we both had.
Why did we have to be so unhappy for so many years when the help was right here? I now have a much calmer and balanced everyday life and we are having a lot more sex. I can definitely recommend this online workshop because it is very professional, a lot of thought has gone into making it and Maj has a lovely way of presenting it all to us.
These 4 amazing modules have taught me how to be aware of these signals. It has been good how the workshop is very intense with a new module each week; this has given us very fast results such as the fact that I realized that I actually do have a sex drive. I do wish that we had had this knowledge from the workshop 15 years ago when we got married.
Maj is very competent and there is no doubt that she clearly knows what she is talking about, professionally and with all her experiences from clients in her clinic. More than once I caught myself thinking: Thank you for being who you are and for taking the time to create this online workshop. It will save A LOT of relationships.
I can go back and listen to — or read — the modules again at my own pace. It has been a real eye-opener but it has been so hard to get through some of the modules as well. Especially because of how much it makes you think! Suddenly I could relax and I no longer had to panic. After the course I still feel my lust. A thousand thank you! After having listened to the first 10 minutes of module 1 I felt that we should be listening to it together.
I felt that it was extremely important for both of us to hear the things you had to say in order for us to have the same starting point and the same basis for doing these exercises and doing the work in being even better together.
And the list came from one of our big talks about what makes us both want to want it. One of the points, for example, is that we sit together every night for 15 minutes. And we have to kiss each other goodbye every morning, with eye-contact and hugs.
And we want to always be together. Haha, and you should know that we almost feel like we know you. And I just wished that more people knew of you. And this is guaranteed to make many people feel wrong, just like I did. Thank you so much. We even have planned to listen to all four modules again. And yes, we have been sitting and listened to each module. In addition to the modules which, without a doubt, has been the primary, the case interviews have been great to listen to because they tell the good story about how you actually can succeed and it does pay off to work with the problem.
Thank you for a lot of good inspiration. Thank you for a very educating course. It has been great to be a part of it. Additionally we have started your sensuality exercise and this has given some great results so far. It has certainly made me very interested in sorting it all out but it has also given me a lot of hope and a fighting spirit. One of the first tasks given to us in module 1, which us women have to do individually for 5 minutes each day throughout the course has certainly shown great results!
The change is unbelievable. I no longer hate myself for not feeling lust for my husband and just coming to terms with such a thing has actually increased my sex drive!