I could feel her glancing at me from the corner of my eye. It was obvious that she wanted me to make a move. I ignored her glance for as long as possible, because I had no idea how to kiss a girl. How could a 10th grader still not know how to kiss a girl?!
So, I checked my ego, and went in for the kiss. Just like my friends had advised, I stuck my tongue right in there and turned it clockwise and counterclockwise, attacking her mouth like a cyclone. Then, a message popped up on my computer. Get free access to my new course and learn the 5 conversation mistakes that put you in the friendzone. How to Kiss a Girl for the First Time First, you should understand that different environments call for different types of kisses.
For example, your kiss in a nightclub should be different than your kiss in the bedroom. This will be the bulk of your first kisses with women.
Stop talking for a couple of seconds and look into her eyes. Lower your eyelids slightly and notice what you find sexy about her. This will make your eye contact more sexual. Hold her by the small of her back and gently pull her in towards you with one hand. Go in light — this will allow you to gradually build up to a deeper kiss.
Gently nibble on her lower lip. Make sure to do it lightly otherwise you might give her a fat lip which is a big time mood killer. Open your mouth slightly and use a little bit of tongue. Maintain control and keep the sexual tension alive by being the first one to pull away.
The goal here is to not just enjoy the kiss, but also use it to build sexual tension. You keep her intrigued and wanting more. You tease her with a small kiss and get her thinking about the big passionate kiss that could be coming soon.
This kiss basically leads right into sex. Still not sure exactly when to use this kiss? Check out this post: The majority of women love dominant men, and so, they like it at least a little bit rough. Bring her in with a little more force than with the normal kiss. Then, hold her more tightly while kissing her, and reach down and grab her ass with one of your hands. The increased physical contact will turn her on and make the kiss more passionate.
You only opened your mouth slightly and used a little bit of tongue with the normal kiss. This makes the kiss more intense and sexual. When you use your tongue, use it in a playful way with her tongue.
You can lick her tongue, flick it with the tip of your tongue, and explore her mouth a little bit. This is a technique I learned from one of my first college girlfriends. It works like this: Pull back occasionally and kiss her neck and ears. You can even give her a gentle bite as well — just try not to make a mark and give her a hickey unless you want her to give you one in return. Kissing her neck and ears like this is a great way to turn her on and start transitioning to sex.
This is one of the best ways to transition from the sexual kiss to actually having sex. In the midst of the kiss, you pick her up, put her legs around you, and walk her to the bed. The first kiss will usually be in a public place. The sexual kiss is the one you should save for when sex is on the table i. It amplifies the sexual tension, gets her extremely turned on, and can easily be transitioned into sex.