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Your first time can set the tone for your entire sex life, and this can be great and terrible. Before you have first-time sex, make sure you check these seven things off your list to make it awesome!
Exploration For many people, the first time they have sex is the first time they do any sexual exploration of their bodies. Start with a brush up on female anatomy. Then, read about unlocking the power of clitoral stimulation and G-spot orgasm. Foreplay Many people, in their excitement to have sex for the first time, will forget foreplay.
But foreplay has lots of advantages the first time you have sex and every time thereafter! For starters, it helps to relax you and can encourage natural lubrication, which happens as a response to arousal. Both of these things ease initial penetration, which can be painful for some women during their first times. The more tense you are, the more likely it is that your first time will be uncomfortable or painful. If you want to give your man back-arching, toe-curling, screaming orgasms that will keep him sexually obsessed with you, then you can learn these sex techniques in my private and discreet newsletter.
You'll also learn the 5 dangerous mistakes that will ruin your sex life and relationship. Foreplay allows you to get into the moment, feel comfortable with your partner and boost intimacy. It enables your body to produce hormones that make sex feel good. The first time you have sex can be painful or even forgettable, but foreplay adds another element. You might not get off, but you have a chance for your man to focus on you with oral or manual stimulation or even a sensual massage. Read more about this in our Foreplay Guide.
Many teens have sex for the first time in a car. It can be tricky, but it works. Renting a hotel room might also be an option. And if your budget is small, you might know someone who has a room where you can have sex for the first time without worrying about privacy. But talking to a new partner, who may also be having sex for his first time, is especially important to increase comfort and ensure you have the same expectations.
Our guide to sexual communication is a great place to start to learn how to talk about sex with your partner. Nor will we tell you to wait until marriage or hold out for only one partner because sex is enjoyable and important, and you should be able to enjoy it whenever you want with any partner you choose.
However, choosing the right partner for your first time and every time after will make a huge difference to your sex life and how you view sexuality, specifically your own. The right partner should be someone you can trust with your body and your emotions. If you think he will slut-shame you after the fact more on that here , wait for someone else. Check it out here to learn how. Safer Sex One of the things you absolutely need to discuss with your partner before having sex is safe sex. This includes practices that will prevent getting pregnant, such as birth control.
Read this post to learn more about how birth control works. Realistic Expectations Perhaps the best advice we can give to anyone who is considering having sex for the first time is simply to have realistic expectations.
Chances are it will be nothing like the super-romantic and sexy scenes you see in the movies or on TV. And porn is an ever farther cry from reality. Plus, the addition of perfect lighting and music do a lot for the ambiance. Of course, you can dim your lights and pick some sexy songs to play during the first time you have sex.
Check out this post for song suggestions. In reality, many women experience first time sex that is somewhere in the middle. It might be a little disappointing. If your partner is inexperienced, it will probably not be as long as you may need to achieve orgasm.
While you might be concerned about your body and perceived flaws, which often leads to sexual anxiety , he has his very own concerns and fears too. This is why choosing the right partner and talking about sex before the first time can relieve pressure both of you might feel.
Want more advice on losing you virginity? First time sex can be life-changing in the best way possible. It can be a relief to simply be done with it. It may simply be a fun time, too. None of those perceptions are wrong, but by following our advice, you can certainly improve your chances of having great sex the first time you try it.
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