At the end of the day, sex is just like any other sport or performing art: The final result is only worth the energy and practice you put into it. Sex should be something you and your partner continually learn from and improve, in order to keep it fresh, exciting, and enjoyable. But before we begin, you might be wondering: While these moves might not work perfectly for everyone, there are variations you can try out and angle adjustment recommendations that will help you perfect each position.
While basic, yes, these positions are also sex staples. Every sexually active guy should be able to impress a woman with these fundamental moves.
However, there is one thing to keep in mind: And ultimately, it will make for better sex for you both. So to pull it off, have your girl lie down flat on her back with her legs spread apart.
You can have her legs spread around yours, or vice versa — do whatever feels most comfortable for you. Stand in front of the bed leaving a few inches between you and the mattress , and hold her legs or have her wrap them around you. If you find there are height differences making it difficult for you to enter her easily — try raising her up by placing a pillow under her hips. To make things a little bit easier, try this modified position where both of you are sitting down. To begin, sit on the couch or bed and have her climb on top of you, slowly lowering herself down onto your shaft.
Let her then rock up and down or in a circular motion until neither of you can take it anymore. What makes this position so great is that it allows the two of you to experience the closeness and intimacy you get with Missionary… while also letting her take the reigns and show you what she likes. Pay attention to what makes her moan, and keep it in mind for next time. So to modify this position, have her lay on her stomach with a pillow or two underneath.
This helps raise her butt up without changing the nuts and bolts of it too much. It also gives you a better angle to enter her from behind without getting too rough. Go slowly at first to make sure the angle is good for both of you — you can also add or remove pillows from underneath her as needed.
You can even think of it as a slightly reversed Missionary position. Plus, you can help her out by thrusting from beneath her. Never underestimate the power of raising her up to a different angle or slightly modifying a position.
These 5 positions will be great stepping stones into your experimentation with sex. Plus, many of them can be performed with props or bondage techniques to really kick it up a notch. Kneel or lay down behind her and enter her from behind. Also, keep in mind that you will probably have to play with the angle after you enter her. Start with toys first, and tweak the angle until both of you are comfortable enough to go for it. To perfect this position, have her lie down on her back.
Next, have her lift her legs and arms up in the air, raising her legs and lowering her arms until her ankles and wrists are touching. Then, tie both her ankles and her wrists together — make sure the knot is tight, but not too tight to cut off her circulation. Finally, enter her from above similar to Missionary. This variation of Girl on Top offers her more control over the situation, while also allowing you to relax more. She can then use her thighs to swivel and bounce up and down.
To make it a little more intense and to give her some more leverage, bend your knees so she can use them to help lift her body up and down. This position is perfect for you. Then you do the same, except your upper body will rest on hers as you enter her from behind. To be successful at shower sex, make sure you have an awesome silicone-based lube for her and something sturdy for you to hold on to. You can try a standing Doggy Style position where she bends over, or you could also try standing face to face while you penetrate her bend her leg for support.
Try incorporating dirty talk… Sex toys… Bondage… Or other props that you both agree will really help push things to the next super-sexy level. This way, she can stimulate her body the way she wants. Of course, there are also ways for you to control her movements while also blowing her mind.
So if you want to do everything you can to give her the sexual pleasure she craves, try adding one or more of these sex positions to your arsenal. Then lean back and prop yourself up using the palms of your hands. From there, have her sit facing you between your legs, and prop her legs up on your shoulders. This position allows her to move up and down or in circles, providing faster and more intense orgasms for both of you.
Not only does it provide better control over movements for her, but it also ensures you have one of the best orgasms of your life. Try it out by laying flat on your back toward the foot of the bed. Slowly slide your head and back off of the bed so that your head and shoulders are on the floor.
At this point, your body will be arched in a kind of waterfall shape. Next, have her sit on top of you — from there, she can press her heels against the edge of the bed and grind up and down, moving her hips in circles. The real secret to this trick is that the blood in your body is going to rush to your head, making your orgasm much more intense than you ever thought possible. What makes it different here is that her body will be in a better position to actually navigate her movements more precisely — this increases her chances of reaching orgasm significantly.
To pull off this position, get into the standard Reverse Cowgirl position. From there, have her lower herself down to your legs or feet, and she can use the palms of her hands and her knees to help support her body. This will offer her better control over her movements, allowing her to hit all the right spots.
To perfect this position, kneel down on the bed and have her lay in front of you. Lift her legs up and grip her thighs to help thrust in and out. You can modify this slightly by having her lace her ankles around your neck or over your shoulders. Put a stack of pillows on the floor. Her back should naturally arch. Your arms should be on top of hers.
Then enter her from behind, just like doggie style. But it also gives her an increased sense of connection and skin-to-skin contact. The last guy I slept with did this to me… and I came in like 2 minutes. Have you tried it?