While riding cowgirl her arms and legs are pretty well occupied, but my hands are free to play and roam at will!
Here are a few ideas to drive your wife crazy and enjoy her body while her arousal builds. Play with her breasts. Pretty obvious, and the topic deserves its own post. Suck on her nipples. How can you not? Trace your fingers over her ears, cheeks, and lips. Put your finger in her mouth to suck. Hold her cheek up against yours. Let her bury her face in your neck, or vice versa. There are a million ways to rub her back, and usually I let my touch get firmer as she gets closer to orgasm.
When we start I glide lightly over her skin with my fingertips, but as she gets close to orgasm I grab her firmly. Play with her butt. Rub it, grab it, pinch it, spank it, whatever you both enjoy. Trace down the length of her body. Trace your fingertips from her fingers to her shoulders, then down her sides, over her hips, down her thighs and calves, and then to the tips of her toes. Then go back up! Follow her movements with your hands, or take control and guide her hips the way you want.
Slowing her down can help you hold off your own orgasm if necessary, and pulling her deeper can give her a burst of stimulation. Rub her throat and upper chest. Light touches here are definitely best!
When she climaxes, I rub my hand in a circle on this spot on her back not exclusively, but frequently. As a result, her body is conditioned to orgasm in response to this touch.
For the most part our wireless vibrator will stay wedged between us against her clitoris without me holding it, but as she gets close to orgasm and moves more vigorously I often slip a hand down to hold the vibrator in place. If the vibrator slides out of position at a critical moment it can really disrupt the progression to orgasm.
Pull back her clitoral hood. This skin is connected to her clitoral hood several inches below, and gently pulling it up will help expose her clitoris more directly to the vibrator, without risking dislodging the vibrator by shoving a second hand down there. Finally, how can you tell what she likes? Ask her to tell you what she likes! Moans, groans, and screams of pleasure.
When she reacts positively to something, make a mental note to revisit it later. Throwing her body backward or collapsing forward. If your wife is holding a body position and then suddenly surges forward or backward this can be an indication that she was momentarily overcome with intense stimulation and her body needed to reposition itself in response. After sex, talk with each other about what you each liked best. What do you want more of? What was your favorite way to give pleasure? Just talk openly and honestly.
Do you have any tips to share?