North America Highest education received: Atheist How religious are you? Heterosexual How many sexual partners have you had in your life including oral sex? Dating casually How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand How long did you know the person before this hookup? What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She loaned me her knife and I brought it back to her dorm.
What led to it? A couple of buddies of mine came to my room and took my smartphone away from me and messaged a girl from Russia to come to my room for oral sex, only partly joking because 10 minutes later she was knocking at my door and my friends were hiding in the bathroom laughing. I was not amused by this and threatened to open the door and make her go away.
My friends saw that I was serious and still not letting me get my phone messaged her to go away. What sexual behaviors took place e. How did you feel during it?
How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? My friends used my phone to ask the Thai girl to send a naked picture of herself. At that point I thought whatever view she had of me had been tarnished and I would get a bad reputation among the international students staying in the building, including the beautiful Ukranian girl I was actually casually dating at the time.
To my suprise, the Thai girl messaged that she would like to come over and watch a movie. The Thai girl brought over soda and we watched Lost in Translation. After the movie, I sensed from her smile that I should push the envelope with her, since my reputation as an upstanding guy would inevitably be gone by the time the Russian girl got word to the Ukranian girl that I had asked for oral sex.
I asked the Thai girl if I could kiss her, and she just smiled. I moved closer and started with the nape of her neck, then her cheek and finally her lips. I stuck my tounge in her mouth, then asker her to lay on the bed next to me. I slid my hand into her blouse, underneath her bra and started cupping one of her breasts.
I then proceeded to slide my hand down her panties but she stopped me, explaining in rudimentary English that it was that time of the month for her. The rest of that night was spent jerking off while she watched and touched my balls. It was a violent volcanic eruption and she cleaned it all up.
After the movie, I basically took off my pants and put her hand on my already engorged cock. I really am a feminist but I just had the urge to treat her like she meant nothing to me. Thankfully, she was cool with it, but after she climbed into bed with me she asked if I was married or had a girlfriend, I said no with a straight face, trying not to think of my Ukranian friend, who I had just had an argument with.
However, she turned around and sat on the edge of the bed. I put my hands under her blouse as she raised her arms and slid it off. I then unclasped her bra from behind, it felt so exciting seeing her half naked from behind and kissing her back while I felt her breasts.
I made her stand up so I could see her panties drop to the floor while I stroked my cock, ready to plow through her. I stood up out of the bed, then my hand instantly went down to her crack as we kissed, She was shaven a bit prickly and dry.
I made her climb into bed and lay on her back and I followed. I did everything slowly, kissing, touching and rubbing my penis — dripping with pre cum — on her clit. Everything between her legs was warm. I just remember how difficult it was to get me inside. Finally after her pre cum had sufficiently lubricated my shaft, it popped in and I was deep inside. The longer we had sex, the more slimy her juices were. Because of the risks: I withdrew from her slowly and her vagina gripped me until the last moments when all of me was finally out.
I made her turn around where I could see her ass and we did it doggy style, which made it much easier for me to slide inside her. As someone who comes from a conservative culture and family, this sexual behavior was unlike me. I forgot eveything when I saw her juices on my shaft and pubic hair and dripping down my balls. Exhausted, I finally withdrew completely and laid on my back. She jerked me off until I came all over the small room like the week before. We cuddled in bed the entire cold night and in the early morning when I was still asleep, she must have gotten dressed and left.
Her scent was still on my cock despite us both washing up after sex. How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one Did your partner have an orgasm? How did you feel about it the next day? How do you feel about them now? That ended up being my last night in China, as all residents had to pack up and leave the building and I had tickets to Toronto.
I met my Ukranian friend downstairs in the lobby, and asked for one last hug. She looked really hurt but I think it was because of the argument that I had with her and the fact that I hung out with other girls in the days leading up to me leaving China, without paying her any attention. What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Fun, pleasure, horniness How intoxicated were you? Not at all no alcohol or drugs How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all no alcohol or drugs How wanted was this hookup for you at the time?
Very Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Only the buddies of mine who took my phone and played around with it. Relatively positive Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup?
Not at all Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all Do you regret this hookup? The Thai girl messaged me and we still stay in touch very infrequently. After the hookup she said it was ok to just forget about her and that she would do the same for me. That I potentially hurt my Ukranian friend. Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? My attitude toward sex changed once I left my faith behind, actually.
I was also involved in mission work in Africa and inner city ministry to homeless, drug addicted people. I was also an alter boy and went to private christian schools not in the USA through 12th grade. I have a devistating genetic disorder non communicable from which a high school friend recently died when he was When I saw his body in the coffin, I realized that my lifespan might be truncated too.
When I expressed an interest in dating, my friends in the church stopped returing phone calls, emails and stopped wanting to hang out. I find its impossible to be religious person and have healthy view of sex. What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think I addressed this above. I wasted so many years in the church hoping and praying for God to either provide a woman for me or take away my sexual desires and emotional need for companionship. I become really upset when I think how many people hide their sexual behavior because their religion, family or societal norms prevent them from being their full sexual selves.
The only Christians who wanted to have sex with me were the closeted gay men who held leadership positions in the church! How sad for them that they had to sneek around. You have a hookup story to share?