You can place the television in front of your bed so that you have an excuse to be on the bed together. Next, start smelling her, touching her face, and then start kissing her. This is where touch escalation is important. Begin by touching her legs, arms, neck, and face as you kiss her.
Next, you can move to more erogenous zones like the outsides and insides of her thighs. Pretty soon, the girl will become increasingly turned on the more you touch her. Lean her back on the bed and keep making out. You can further proceed by slipping your hand under her shirt and bra and cupping her breasts and slipping your hand down her pants to massage the area around her pussy.
Continue to proceed to sex. In this short presentation I'm going to show you how to hand pick the girl you want and turn her into your loyal girlfriend Tap here to watch a quick presentation on why this unique method works so fast at removing girls' panties. You kiss her neck while you pass your palm over her breasts through her shirt and with the other hand stroke her thigh. You slip one of your hands down her jeans and start massaging her lips with your fingers. You feel that disappointing feeling of frustration.
Most guys unfortunately either 1 stop moving forward, 2 start begging for sex, or 3 start arguing with the girl as to why she should continue. You hesitate whether you should buy the car or not and suddenly the salesman starts pleading with you to buy the car.
Be Understanding Sometimes, despite all of your efforts to turn a woman on, when it comes down to the moment of sex, a woman still shuts herself down mentally. Most likely the woman has legitimate concerns that worry her, preventing her from sleeping with you — even if she otherwise wants to. Or the girl might be a virgin — and is simply scared of the whole unknown experience in general.
But guess what — it works. However, a lot of women have intense emotional feelings when it comes to having sex with a new guy for the first time.
Her body and limbic brain responsible for lust and sex also referred to as the unconscious mind is telling her to GO, but her neocortex the conscious mind , full of societal programming, is telling her to hold out. Her limbic brain telling her to have sex has the force of a tsunami wave while the neocortex telling her to stop has the force of a whisper.
Instead of stopping, begging, or arguing with a woman, follow these simple guidelines below. Many times a woman will verbally say one thing, but with her body say something completely different. She crumbles in no time flat. Indeed, agreeing with her disengages her logical, rational mind which is the source of all mental resistance.
Make your bedroom sexy Your home is your love castle. And you need to set it up with a minimal level of standards to help put women into the mood. Candles, incense, big fluffy pillows, a large bed, and sexy low level lightning all set the mood for hot sex.
Is the bedroom exclusively reserved for passion, experimentation, and fantasy, or do you have negative anchors and emotions linked to the bedroom? Is the bedroom a place that you fight in? Is the bedroom a place that you play cold war mind games and power plays with each other?
Does your bedroom double as a work office? Does your bedroom have a television that you associate passive entertainment to? What do you have anchored to that bedroom of yours… negative draining experiences or positive passionate ones?
The bedroom must be reserved exclusively for passion, lovemaking, and fantasy. It should be a Tantric temple of comfort and sex. Get the dirty pile of laundry off the floor.
Put that exercise gear in the closet. Put the laptop in the main room. And yes, the television too— get that television out of there. When you bring work, stress, and a mess into the bedroom, you begin to associate your bedroom with all kinds of negative emotions such as work, stress, and mess. Even a stripped down bare room with a twin bed can carry incredibly good anchors and set your woman into the right frame.
Whereas if you fight all the time, a luxurious room with candles, incense, a grand bed, and big fluffy pillows will not feel like a safe place. So keep your crap out of the bedroom and keep your bedroom a pure and true playpen. Replace the television with candles.
Replace the dirty laundry with a rich oriental carpet. Put a collection of incense where the computer was. Over time, you and the woman will begin to associate only good times and good sex with the bedroom. Up next, I've got a controversial tip I discovered to have the loving life you deserve, by tapping into what speaks to a woman's DNA on a genetic level Click here to watch