Is sex getting boring or monotonous? Try these 30 tips on how to spice up your sex life and you can bring the sizzle back in no time. New relationships are always exciting, especially when it comes to sex. The whole act of exploring each other and experiencing new together times in bed can be a rush that few things can ever give you.
In a perfect relationship, your compatibilities have to be perfect and the sex has to be awesome. Relationships need time to build trust and compatibility.
On the other hand, sex starts to get repetitive after a while. We live in a kinky world and what works sexually for one couple may not always work for another. Sexy tips to fantasize about someone else ] Find your own ways to excite each other in bed. If you want a few tips on how to spice up your sex life, here are 30 great pointers to get started in the right direction. Plan a date with each other and pretend like both of you are having an affair. Meet each other in a restaurant and seduce each other like two lusty lovers.
Dressing up as someone else is an easy way to enact all your secret fantasies without having an affair. Try being a doctor and a patient, a professor and student, or even a soldier and a journo.
The beginners guide to sexual role playing in bed ] 3 Think teen. You may have fallen in love as young teens. Get creative and behave like eighteen year olds over a weekend. Dress like one, hang out in places you used to, and make out like teens! One of the best ways to have great sex is by focusing on foreplay. Spend 15 more minutes on making each other horny before having sex. Both of you will end up having better sex. As hard as it may seem, avoid planning ahead for sex or scheduling time for sex unless both of you are on very busy schedules.
As the relationship matures, you need to come up with new ways to get innovative. Indulge in something that gets your heart racing and your sex life will get super sexy. Bring in new excitement into your bed. Visit your local pharmacy or an adult store and bring in sex toys, lubes, pheromones and anything else that works to reinvigorate your senses. Look good and start working out if you have to. Pamper yourselves with fragrant scrubs, sexy lingerie, and get yourself a new hair cut.
How to increase your sex appeal ] 9 Bring your wildest fantasies alive. Talk about it with your partner and indulge in them together. Top 10 sexual fantasies for guys and top 10 sexual fantasies for girls ] 10 Practice abstinence. Avoid having sex now and then, and save it for days when you go clubbing or indulge in something exciting.
Plan this right and it can be a huge turn on. Surprise your partner into a sexual high now and then. There are many sexy places to get naughty besides the bed. Think kitchen, couches, bathroom, backyard, or a pool. Get innovative and the sexual rewards will be more pleasurable. Bring food into bed, or cook together. Aphrodisiacal food can make lovemaking more romantic, and a few drinks can make both of you drunk and horny.
Get naked and give each other a sensual massage without focusing on sex. Pleasure each other and let the fingers linger a while in the tingling spots.
Introduce tantric sex into the bedroom to have a passionate and intense sexual experience. Tantric sex tips for first timers ] 16 Think kinky.
Nothing beats the excitement of wild and kinky sex when the relationship is starting to slow down in bed. Talk about your fantasies and bring your kinky fetishes and lusty desires to life. Pick a vacation spot that both of you would like, be it a crowded sex resort or a beautiful, idyllic paradise island. And spend all vacation thinking of nothing but sexy thoughts. Tips to have a sexy vacation on the beach ] 18 Sexy texts and calls.
Send a few sexy photos in the middle of the day and tease your partner into wanting more when both of you get together at night. Tips to take a good looking naked photo ] 19 Watch porn. Sometimes, watching porn can help both of you get into the mood and have a better time making love while watching another couple making out on the screen. How porn saved my sexless marriage ] 20 Fool around. Be affectionate with each other all the time, and take affection to a whole new level now and then.
Make a video together while having sex. Delete it after the act if having a sex tape freaks you out, or make sure you hide it in a safe place. Watching yourselves having sex in the video and having sex at the same time can be a huge rush for anyone. Wear revealing clothes, and every new and then, reveal something and make it seem like an accident. Sexy public flashing confessions ] 24 Use mirrors.
Use full length mirrors alongside your bed to heighten your sexual experience. You can have sex really close to the mirror if you want to recreate a foursome sexual fantasy. Watch yourself or imagine another couple. Guide to start swinging ] 25 Make some noise. How to sound sexy in bed ] 26 Sexual setting. Design your bedroom to revolve around sex.
Use fragrances and candles, and the perfect cushions to make lovemaking feel like a sexy luxury. Tips to arrange your bedroom for sex ] 27 Be truthful. The mind is the biggest sexual organ we have. Create fantasies and imagine it together.
Try something new all the time. Have sex in a car or on a beach while on a vacation, skinny dip or even with another couple in bed. As long as you create new and exciting memories all the time, sex can never ever get boring. How to skinny dip ] 30 Believe in the relationship. You may indulge in many kinky ideas or even go as far as swinging.
Enjoy the bliss of romance and work on keeping the passion boiling with new and sexy things to try together. Liked what you just read? Alison Ricard loves sunshine, good books and contagious laughter. Follow Alison on Pinterest.