The Beginners Guide to Awaken Your Sexuality Share Tweet Pin It Use this guide to tantric sex to learn it all and experience the most explosive sexual experience that could awaken your hidden sexual energy.
By Jana Snow Sex is fun, but can you take it to a higher plane of sexual ecstasy and emotional connection? Ever wondered what tantric sex and tantric sexuality is all about? When you make love with your partner, the union may perhaps last for a good half an hour or more. But tantric sex can help you prolong the connection and increase sexual intimacy by a hundred fold if done the right way! According to ancient Indian scriptures, the energy levels of a human body are controlled by nine chakras wheels that pass along a vertical straight line.
By activating and creating a connection with these chakras, you can experience happiness, get rid of pain and emotions, or control and enhance any human emotion that you have ever felt. Today, science has proved the presence of these energy centers in the body, and is still trying to understand how it works. Tantric sex is the art of activating these nine chakras during the sexual union of a man and a woman. How to give a sensual massage and work your magic ] Experiencing bliss through tantric sex First of all, you need to give yourselves a few hours of free time with no phone calls or distractions.
To create an explosive sexual connection, you need to be focused on each other and nothing else. You can have tantric sex for an hour or prolong it for more than a day! To start off, indulge in tantric sex for an hour or two. Tantric sexuality is an art that has to be learnt and mastered.
Explore and create your own connections, because passionate sex, just like our own minds, is as unique as a fingerprint. Setting the space Set things in a manner that would please all your senses. Use fragrances like musk or sandalwood to stimulate your senses. Light candles and use a playlist of very soft ethnic music. Dress in loose clothing that can come off easily, like a sarong or a robe. Red is the color of fertility, and would be preferred over other colors.
Choose aphrodisiacs like strawberries, oysters, or chocolates to feed each other while having tantric sex. Tantric sensuality and the awakening Sit down cross legged or on your knees in front of each other. Tease your partner with long strokes throughout the length of the body, brushing close to the points of heightened sensation like the privates and the breast, without touching it. Massage yourself for nine deep, long breaths.
Move your fingers down to your ribs, and repeat the spiraling massage for 18 breaths, two times nine. Move your fingers down to the end of your ribs and repeat the motion and breathe slowly for 27 breaths, three times nine. Now move midway between the ribs and the navel, and repeat this for 36 breaths, four times nine.
Now bring both the hands together just below the navel, and circulate the skin as you breathe for 45 slow breaths. Then massage midway between the navel and the pubic bone for 54 breaths.
Then do the same just above the pubic bone for 63 breaths. Massage your privates for 72 breaths. Finally, massage just behind the genitals for 81 breaths.
Awakening the kundalini The kundalini is a sexual energy that rests within all of us like a coiled serpent. When you massage yourself and think of nothing but your carnal desires, your sexual energy would start to grow along with your desires. Repeat the massage in multiples of nine, but this time the woman does all the massaging first, followed by the man who sits behind the woman.
You can pause between steps to have a sip of wine or an aphrodisiac. Place one hand on your heart, and the other on your privates and gently sway back and forth slowly, while taking deep, long breaths. Close your eyes and visualize the colors and think of nothing but your sexual desires. After a while, you would start to feel a sexual awakening. If one of you try to sway faster in sexual excitement, the other partner should restrict the pace and maintain the same speed.
Imagine sex and through your closed eyes, watch the colors form and fill you with sexual energy. Now change from the to and fro motion to circular motions and rotate your waists in sync together. Lie down again, and rest awhile. Lean back on the in-breath and breathe out as you move forward. Do this calmly and slowly. Massage yourselves on the nipples as you begin to sway in harmony. As you do this, for the first time, your sexual energies would come in contact with each other. Continue moving to and fro with deep, long breaths as you feel the sexual energy come and go in waves.
As both of you move together through the tantric connection, the man penetrates the woman while she sits on his lap and locks him in her thighs. How to ride a man and look sexy doing it! This completes the path of sexual energy circulation between the man and the woman. In this position, known as the Maithuna, the energy chakras are aligned, between the navel, the solar plexus, and the heart, and the energy flows through each other in a manner you would not have experienced before.
Breathe into each other as you sway back and forth, and then connect your tongues. This connects your entire body, the mind and the soul. Let this swaying turn to rocking and finally into thrusting. As the waves of the orgasm begin shuddering into the very core of your body, clench your teeth and bring the sensation to your head, to a point near the top of your head, just over the scalp. Let go of your mind and be still as the waves of sexual union overpower you.
Top 50 kinky sex ideas to have a sexier relationship ] Ending the sexual union of tantric sex Stay in the same position until both of you are back in the mundane world, and your breathing and heart rate comes back to normal.
Slowly, begin a tender disconnection. Lower your hands to the sides and gently, let the woman lift herself off the lap and sit down facing each other. As you sit facing each other, touch each other at the knees. Feel the connection, and allow it to fade. Gently, let go of the physical connection and draw yourselves apart. Close your eyes and sit in your own space. Open your eyes when both of you are ready and thank each other for what you have shared.
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