Luckily, there are certain things the majority of women crave in the bedroom. We want to feel desired. We want to feel appreciated. And most of all, we want to feel like our pleasure is a priority. Here are 5 types of sex that are sure to satisfy her carnal cravings… 1. Spontaneous Sex Remember, women love to feel sexually wanted and desired by their partners — and nothing says desire like spur-of-the-moment sex on the living room stairs.
Unplanned, spontaneous love-making increases the lust factor by showing your partner that your attraction for her trumps everything else. Turn her on by telling her you need to have her right there and then, no matter the time or the place. And depending where you decide to drop trou and get busy, the possibility of getting caught can also bring added excitement. In fact, a study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine reported that having sex in public is one of the top fantasies among women — we fantasize about it even more than men do.
The fresh sheets, room service and the fact that someone else cleans up after you speaks to our need to feel appreciated and pampered. Rough Sex Men are raised to never lay a hand on a woman, which is a good rule overall… Unless the one thing she really wants is for you to play rough in bed. Most women, every now and then, want to be sexually dominated by their partner.
Engaging in a little power play can be a fun and exhilarating way to explore kink in the bedroom. First and foremost, make sure she wants to play rough, and outline boundaries to ensure that you both feel safe. Revel in the pure lust this type of sex is driven by, indulge in animalistic passion, and go ahead Sensual Sex This the type of sex that most men already assume women want.
Shut off your cell phones, turn off the TV, and anything else that will distract you from reaching new levels of intimacy with your lady. Remember that foreplay is the bread and butter when engaging in a night of sensual sex. So take your time, go slowly, and explore all of the erogenous zones on her body that so often go neglected in the bedroom.
Oral Sex If sex is like pizza, then oral sex is like ice cream: And believe it or not, according to recent studies, men are still, STILL not going down on their partners as much as women would like. Are you using it as just a warmup for intercourse, or are you really taking your time to be the best you can be down under? When you finally do make contact with the clitoris, go slowly, build anticipation and pay attention to how she responds.
Oral sex is all about investing time and effort into just one thing: Show her you appreciate her and care about her orgasm just as much as your own. So go forth and show her that you know exactly how to turn her on, pique her pleasure, and keep her coming back for more.