In order to change that, she has to desire you as well as like you. Girls really love guys who are a lot of fun to be around and make them laugh. Talk about light-hearted things like the current event and music, not her deepest secrets and desires.
No woman wants to chance a relationship costing her a great friend. Before you pull away, make sure she gets in her door safely. Women pay attention to men who are willing to protect them without expecting compensation. Those little extra efforts will go a long way in her eyes. Have your own life, but dedicate some time to her when you bump into each other or have a little time alone. She needs time for herself too. It will take some of the pressure off of her. Call her every night for a week and then skip a day.
But she may not admit it. This can be a lot of fun if done correctly and not in a testing kind of way. She will be curious, as all girls are, and want to know a little more about the wild ex.
Start out patient and funny, and then add in more descriptive details. As the conversation goes on, you can add in the erotic horny parts.
Get her to talk sex with you If she got reeled in by your sexy story, then ask her about an erotic experience from her past. If she hesitates, pester her just a little bit. No, do not ask her repeatedly like a thirsty teenage boy, just nudge her a little and see if she bites.
Throw her a compliment about her story and how she was a naughty girlfriend. Add in that you think it would have been amazing if you were her boyfriend. Start talking dirty to her and get her to do it back. Just speak softly and slowly.
Surely you know that phone sex comes with the dirty talk, right? Be sure to get a laugh or two out of her immediately to break up and awkwardness she may be feeling after being so vulnerable over the phone because women tend to do that. She got into bed with sexy, confident you.