The purpose is to become one with God. The Western form of this sacred sexuality called Tantra teaches slow, non-orgasmic sexual intercourse. The purpose is to become enlightened, not to win an Olympic medal for carnal gymnastics.
Eyes are windows to the soul, so you are gazing into his soul, he into yours. Next, synchronize your breathing with your partner: Breathe in together, exhale together. Then move into breath exchange: Practice this for at least 10 minutes.
Tantric Sex For Beginners To take this into sexual Tantra, try the same process but with clothes off. Sit on his lap, facing him, and wrap your legs around his waist.
Do the breath exchange, but move into kissing and caressing. In time, begin slow intercourse, but continue caressing and kissing. Here is where things get interesting; as you become more proficient, you can develop the ability for prolonged orgasm. For both women and men, this is a variation on multiple orgasms; you remain at the peak of ecstatic pleasure without climaxing.
There are all the feelings of a typical orgasm, but it lasts for many minutes or even hours , without a traditional orgasm. This leads to profound sexual and emotional merging. Some women even orgasm while doing certain workout exercises.
The Importance Of Reconnecting In our modern over-scheduled lives, we rarely stop and intently focus on our partner. Practicing tantric sex can enhance your relationship and your sexual pleasure in several ways.
Firstly, emphasizing breath and connection creates a deep level of intimate contact. This alone can open your heart to feeling closer, more loving and more forgiving. Secondly, the slow pace of tantric lovemaking will allow you to explore the sensual range of your bodies and minds.
Making love for an hour or more is like turning a fast-food burrito into an epicurean feast. Both will satisfy your hunger, but the feast brings you more pleasure, delight and profound satisfaction.
Lastly, while you may balk at the idea of avoiding climaxing, these practices can help you both develop sexual ecstasy and connectedness far beyond that of a typical orgasm. If you feel that you need help getting in the mood, try these 31 natural libido boosters.